I’ve been a realist my entire life. Maybe I’ve even been called a scrooge once or twice. I never believed in the big bearded fellow as far as I can remember and I’m not proud to say that I ruined several children due to that in my time. It’s not that I’m a horrible grump when it comes to this stuff, it’s that there is SO much amazing things surrounding this season that I can’t imagine the need for anything made up. I’ve been a parent for almost 8 years now, and for the entirety of those 8 years I’ve managed to escape the topic pretty much altogether. I guess it’s one of the perks of being divorced… “go ask your dad…”
I became a foster parent shortly prior to Easter. My sweet duchess, 7 years old, joined my family and life as we new it changed forever. In her short 7 years she had not experienced the security and love that my boys had experienced, much less any magic. I managed to make it through Easter without giving the magical jelly bean pooping rabbit any credit. I was proud of myself. The kids came down on Easter morning and gushed over their new fishing poles and baskets filled with lots of learning materials and toys. In the days that followed Easter, I paid attention to the conversations between the kids and their friends. They all discussed how this magical bunny paid a visit and lavished them with candy and gifts. When the duchess finally approached me regarding the topic, I was at a loss for words. Was I not good enough? Did I do something bad? Why didn’t the Easter Bunny give me anything?
That was the moment in time when I decided to look deep into my black little heart and try to look for any shred of magic. I promised myself that I would at least try. The tooth fairy, I could handle the tooth fairy. The tooth fairy didn’t interfere with any of the spiritual lessons that I try to pass down to my children. I’m not sure how I escaped a lost tooth in the time between Easter and this Christmas season with either of the 7 year old or the 5 year old losing a tooth, but I did. As Christmas quickly approached, I started to purposely ignore the topic. I was not prepared.
Almost as soon as Halloween was over the children started bombarded me with questions, gift requests regarding Christmas and… that awful, wretched Elf on a Shelf. Oh, that Elf on a Shelf. I’d like to find the creator of this Elf. I would find this person and trap them in a room with life-sized elves darning that same evil spark in their eyes and that wickedly creepy plastic smile. The elves would then proceed to periodically and strategically torture this person in a way that would make the Viet Cong blush. Only they’d use toilet paper and M&M’s and Hershey Kisses… and the rest of the torture devices these elves are so accustomed to using. I had finally decided to give into the peer pressure when my sweet duchess had most horrifying experience with our neighbor’s elf, Buddy, in their guest bathroom. Yes! I had gotten off the hook! Or so I thought. Over the next two days she convinced herself that it wasn’t “that bad” and they started requesting it again. But that face!
I’m one of those moms. I try to find a life lesson or create a meaningful experience in almost everything that we do. So, I took to Pinterest and found this post. Then I headed over with my strategically started Amazon Prime trial and ordered these adorable, not creepy elves. Kindness Elves that would assign the children different Random Acts of Kindness for the next 25 days.
Meet Ender(man) and Ginger McNotCreepy:
Today we completed the third day of our assignments and I do have something meaningful and life lesson-y to add about each one of them so far, but for now I will share my list in case any of you are looking for anything fun to do to spread love over the next season:
(in no particular order, except number 25 on Christmas Day)
- Pass out flowers to women at a grocery store.
- Donate toys and clothes to a homeless shelter for families.
- Hand out balloons to kids shopping with their families at the mall.
- Candy Cane bomb kids at a restaurant.
- Bake cookies for a fire station.
- Rake leaves for a neighbor.
- Adopt a kid from the school’s Giving Tree.
- Cook a meal for a family.
- Hand out $1 bills to kids at the dollar store to buy a toy.
- Hand out hot chocolate to parking volunteers at church.
- Hot Chocolate and thank you note for trash guys.
- Gift and thank you note for mailman.
- Gift and thank you note for a server.
- Chalk notes on driveway for neighbors.
- Sticky note compliments on cars on parking lot.
- Pay for someone behind us.
- Give a homeless person a gift card.
- Bake cupcakes for library workers.
- Mail a card and a small gift to a random stranger out of the phone book.
- Kind bomb library books (notes in the books)
- Make Christmas flowers for the school front office staff.
- Tape microwave popcorn and candy to Redbox.
- Take coloring books and crayons to children waiting at Children’s Hospital.
- Send a package to a Marine that’s overseas.
- Take treats and thank you notes to people working at drug store on Christmas.